CFG
Meetings by Phone
Date:
March 6-8, 2006
Listserv: Coaches
Monday, March 6, 2006 4:52 PM
I have a few questions about CFGs by telephone.
I direct a leadership training institute and we have used CFG protocols
in our training and at our yearly retreats. A couple of the participants
and alumni have taken the coaches training. Others are familiar with
the protocols. The alumni group consist of principals and heads of
schools spread across the country. They would like more contact than
the yearly retreats.
Would it be feasible to facilitate CFG meetings bi-monthly by telephone?
Is face to face contact necessary? Does anyone have experience with
facilitating CFG meetings by conference call?
Thanks for the feedback.
Fran, NJ
Monday, March 6, 2006 4:55 PM
I would say if all parties agree, by phone is okay; but I think that
nothing takes the place of face-to-face. Is teleconferencing an option?
Ernestine, NM
Monday, March 6, 2006 5:09 PM
I have worked with some folks from Teach For America in Houston, TX
who have tried to do CFG via phone. Zoe Stemm-Calderon from the Houston
office might be able to give you some pointers/feedback.
Tim, TX
Monday, March 6, 2006 8:23 PM
You might try a synchronous web meeting using Elluminate or other
similar program. You can hear and speak to each other, write on a
whiteboard, bring in other applications/documents, text message, etc.
I had considered using it for CFG's myself, but opted for in-person
since we are close enough.
Elissa, NY
Monday, March 6, 2006 9:00 PM
We have recently had several conference calls in the last few months
with different groups and have found that we have had varying degrees
of success. Some of my learning in this as both a facilitator and
a participant at times is these. I hope they might be helpful.
* Even more so than with an in-person CFG, the size of the group seems
important to keep fairly small to allow for the richest dialogue and
not just a series of monologues.
* It might be helpful for folks/facilitator to create some semblance
of how it is when you are together...e.g. how you are seated in a
circle (folks write names down accordingly), being very present as
if sitting in a circle together, etc.
* Consider the technology and the noise associated with it. It can
be a little challenging if folks are not in quiet areas.
* Keep equity in mind and perhaps do more check-ins on the process
since it is challenging to pick up on clues via the phone. The pace
or structure might be stifling, so it could be valuable to find that
out early on so adjustments could be made.
* Save time for the debrief, since the conversation may take longer
than usual and people tend to peel away at a different rate than they
would face to face.
I'm sure there are many others, but if everyone has that connection
and desire to converse, it should be a fantastic opportunity to keep
moving together at a distance. Best of luck
Scott, CO
Tuesday, March 7, 2006 6:39 AM
I agree with every Scott. I have many concerns and carry reservations
about the purpose of a telephone CFG. The more diverse the group the
more challenging the CFG via telephone might be. If you are going
to go deep and deal with some deep seeded beliefs and challenges that
cross differences, I wonder if a telephone CFG will work. How does
a telephone participant in a CFG read my body language? How do I read
other participant's body language? I can be very expressive and at
times demonstrative and passionate. I would venture that a telephone
CFG will be superficial at best. Perhaps a telephone CFG would work
after you have spent some time face to face. Peace,
Camilla, NJ
Tuesday, March 7, 2006 10:31 AM
Thank you for your thoughtful responses.
Fran, NJ
Wednesday, March 8, 2006 7:13 AM
Hi,
I agree with Scott’s ideas about attention to structure and
I share Camilla’s concerns about depth across differences. I’m
wondering if you might consider triads that would communicate between
face to face full group opportunities. I know the Annenberg Principals
used triads successfully to bridge distances and stretches of time
when they could not be together in the past.
Debbie,
PA
